Friday, November 16, 2007

Death,Unity,Venice,Returning

Death is too hard and it is not right. Without our consent, Adam made a covenant with death and we were forced to follow. It hurts. We feel pain, sorrow, incompleteness and grief. And this is right. Death was not in God's original plan. It is His enemy. But He promises that this last enemy, death, will be destroyed. (I Corinthians 15:26) We look forward to that, we yearn for it and we can confidently trust that death is ultimately swallowed up in victory. So, we can confidently say, "O death, where is your sting? O grave, where is your victory? Thanks be to God, which gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ." I Corinthians 15:55,57

Psalm 133
Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity! It is like the precious ointment upon the head, tht ran down upon the beard, even Aaron's beard; that went down to the skirts of his garments; As the dew of Hermon and as the dew tht descendedupon the mountains of Zion; for there the Lord commanded the blessing, even life for evermore.

We are knit together, the two families. We are one. We started this several years ago and have slowly meshed our families together. But now, we are bound together, we have been forged together through this firey furnace of loss. And the Lord has commanded his blessing upon us. We feel God's grace daily. We feel His power and love. His mercy and peace have hovered over us. This past week we have cried together, broken bread together, worshiped together, laughed together, held hands together, cried and rejoiced in the Lord together.

Elizabeth needed some private time yesterday so the 10 of us took the train down to Venice. All the siblings, plus two excited dogs, piled into Christian's beloved Defender and off the two cars went to catch the train from Sicile. Jon drove and immediately feel in love with Christian's vehicle. Upon arriving in Venice, we split up the two internation phones, decided on a time to meet back at the station and took off in two groups. We did not get very far before we were all clumped together in one group, strolling through the winding streets of Venice; keeping together by whistling the "code whistle" from the "Court Jester" which we had seen the night before. Venice knew the "Americans" had arrived. I guess the 10 of us just had to see Venice together. We did have a couple of blips in the screen, when at two seperate times we were seperated from two individuals in the group for a period of time. But we were eventually reunited and I will let you try to figure out who the culprits were. Our stroll to San Marco square included stopping for lunch, shopping,enjoying beautiful vistas down the various canals, and a coffee and hot chocolate stop before we departed.

Today our men have returned home. They are on three different flights back to the US. We stood in Elizabeth's dining room holding hands in a circle. Rob read Psalm 121, the Lord will preserve our going out and coming in....., we prayed and they left in two vans driven by wonderful Army men. Men who have made their presence and assistance available to us at any time of the night or day. Thanks to all those precious men and women in uniform. The women will remain and help Elizabeth with the remaining packing, sorting and the host of other details involved in her returning to the US.

"Our soul does wait on the Lord, and in his word do we hope" Psalm 130:5

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

This "window" into your journey has been more then a blessing...touching and challenging me through the evidence of your faith!
We continue to pray for you ALL every day, and will remember you this week through the sorting and packing.
I'm sure some of these days will be endlessly hard for your precious daughter - packing up the life she and Christian had there together. I will pray that as memories flow, there will be joy along with the tears.

Anonymous said...

I am so glad you all had the opportunity to see Venice together. One day, that memory will not be so bitter-sweet, but mostly sweet.

Our prayers and blessings are with you as you spend these last days putting away the memories, hopes, and dreams. May the Lord replace them with sweeter ones in time.

Peace be with you.

Anonymous said...

Thank you for sharing so beautifully. My husband and I were friends of Christian's from Bible school in Germany and there are many of us who have reconnected through this and have been praying for your families. I am so proud to find out on hindsight that Christian served his country and even more so that he continued to grow in the Lord. He was such a bright light. I was also thrilled to see what a wonderful woman he married. I ache because it is hard to understand the mind of God. We lost my husband's 23 year old brother 5 years ago and it is still hard. Please know that we will continue to hold Liz and all of you up to our heavenly Father. If Liz is ever interested, Christian's brother Lars has connected with our group on Facebook and we have been reminiscing. Reading your blog I am so thankful for moms. May God be your strength as you comfort your daughter and hold up her mother-in-law.

Karla Summey

Paul said...

Hope. In Jesus we have hope--the hope of the resurrection. Thank you for remembering this and reminding the rest of us with your posts. Our victory is sure.

We have been following the events since day one and praying for Liz and the families.

If you come to Racine in early December, you're welcome to share our home.

--Paul and Susan

Anonymous said...

We have been trying to keep up-to-date on all the information and activities following Christian's tragic passing. Anything we can say is hopelessly inadequate, because the words to express our sympathy do not exist, or at least they escape us in this time of sorrow. We'll try just the same......

We want to express our most sincere sympathies to Liz and the entire Nordberg and Skoglund families. Please all know that we grieve with you daily. But we also share the steadfast belief that Christian will, one day, be reunited in glory with Liz and all who share in the Lord's salvation.

We are thinking of you especially this day, Margaret, and remember that it is your birthday.

Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you all.

Anonymous said...

Again, thank you for sharing your days with us. It makes the many miles seem just a little bit closer.
Rick and Darlene shared of their time in Italy this morning during the service. They shared of how wonderfully the military honored Christian and how His grace and mercy has been poured out upon your families. We continue to lift you up in prayer.
Love,
Judy Tomford

thisrequiresthought said...

thinking of you and praying for you every day. (and that means several times a day, too!)
We prayed for the Nordberg/Skogland families this morning in church.
as hard as it may be for you, sharing your thoughts online helps us to know how to intercede for you.
thanks.

Unknown said...

Margaret, I am not sure how to express the sadness we feel for you and your family. The journey that the Nordberg and Skoglund families have ventured has given each of you a stronger love for each other and for your faith.
We are keeping Liz and both families close in our hearts and our prayers.
Margaret, We are have been thinking of you so much but especially today since it is your birthday. We send our love and look forward to having you all safely back in Canton. Phyllis